The Pain of Loss
In several places, movies, cartoons and tv shows, we are presented with the situation where people only know how important someone is after this someone dies.
I wonder if it is true. I thought I lost someone, and only then I realized how important she was to me, since then I tried to give each person their rightful value.
I don't see this recognition very often. I wonder how many people would need to lose a dear friend or relative to learn the importance of every person near them.
People seem only to understand importance through pain.
Ok I am being a tad extreme here.
But it happens that happy people usually tend to think only of the thing making them happy and end up forgetting that there are other important things in life.
I have seen many losses, not mine, that made me very sad, to see someone so important to another, and to see them go apart.
I wonder what losses would make me sad.
I wonder if others would get sad losing someone close to them.
I wonder if I will ever find someone I don't miss. Someone I was certain I would never lose. Someone that would hate to lose me.
Well in the mean time I would just like to have a safe company, someone that will be there for me.