Reaction.
Who do you react when something really important to you is taken away?
When you REALLY like a job, but get fired over mass cuts due to economic problems?
Or when you lose a loved one, be it family, friend, or lover?

Humans react each in their own manner. Not something any one can analyze. But it is curious to think of how people react.
My said she dreamed her mother was dying. The despair she described as her reaction shows she would most likely fall apart to lose something so precious.
It got me thinking.
In the end, do we think about how other will take an event before we set it in motion?
I know we are that self involved. But hopefully people will be more thoughtful once they are aware of the harm.
As for things out of our control, well, we need to be prepared.